Abstract:The core of Martin Barber's philosophy of relationship is the“I -you”relationship,and in essence it is a spiritual en- counter. “I - you”relationship provide new implication for university teaching: university teaching is dialogic,which is a process of cultivating students'spiritual power in life encounter; education need to promote students to establish the“I -you”knowledge -based relationship; “I -you”relationship is the fundamental pursuit of the relationship between teachers and students in universities. This prompts university teachers to conduct a basic concept transformation of teaching,that is,good teaching is not only teaching and explo- ring knowledge,but also generating meaning and spirits between teachers and students.